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A Guide to Self HarmWhat is self harm?
Self harm/Self Injury (SH/SI) is when an individual causes harm or inflicts injuries to their body deliberately. The most common forms of self harm include cutting yourself, burning, or hitting yourself or other objects to cause pain to yourself, pulling out hair and overdosing on tablets.
Its a common misunderstanding that self harmers are suicidal and this is not always the case!! Self harm is not always related to suicidal feelings but there are some self harmers who self harm as a way to stop themselves killing themselves but theres other self harmers who self harm to NOT kill themselves and are not related to killing themselves, infact, youll find a lot of self harmers use first aid on their injuries.
Why do people self harm?
There are many reasons why people self harm and not everyone do it for the same reason. I will outline the main reasons that I self harm but note that not everyone self harms for these reasons, some may have
I Swear...I swear I heard your voice today...
Whispered on the wind
I swear I felt your arms today...
Caressing my cold skin
I swear I felt your lips today...
Wet against my own
I swear I felt your breath today...
A soft and gentle moan
I know I felt my heart today...
Beating hard and fast
I know I love her more today...
Then ever in the past
I know she loves me more today...
This love will always last...
Long Distance Relationship"Sometimes I forget you exist"
"::raise eyebrow:: huh?"
"When you're away...I forget...that...uh..."
"...that you have a girlfreind or that I am she? " Cocks head to the side::"
LDR Guide Part 1Long Distance Relationship Tips!
By Michelle Williams
Hey, I'm Michelle and I've been in my long-distance relationship with my sweetheart, Jorge, since January 2009. Here I am going to share some tips and tricks that my boyfriend and I have come across and used to keep our relationship going. This guide is targeted mainly at those of you in serious, long-term LDR relationships, but many of these tips can be applied to any relationship of any distance. Hope it helps!
1. Talk About What's Going On
One of the downsides of a long-distance relationship is the lack of actually being there to know what's going on in your partner's life. So how do you keep each other up to date? Talk. Talk about your day, what happened, who you talked to, what you ate, what you talked about, etc. Be sure to fill each other in on as many details as possible about your day. Do it everyday! Be descriptive and be thorough! This builds trust in your relationship and doesn't leave your part
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